Confidence Gives You A Boost

Confidence is a big deal in life. The more confident you are the more people will like you, the more respected you’ll be and the more you’ll like yourself. But confidence isn’t based off of what other people think of you. It can’t be if it is then you will never be happy with it. No confidence is based off of your own feeling of self worth. Liking who you are as a person despite what other’s opinions might be. Do you like who you are when no one is around? What about do you act differently when other people are around? If so how different are you in those two situations? Do you like how you act in both? These are questions that should be asked. Especially if you are a teen or preteen who is still trying to figure out this thing called life, and who you want to be. If you don’t like how you act in one situation then that means it’s time to change. We get into habits. Changing those is hard. You have to step out of your comfort zone. But in order to get something you don’t normally have, you’ll need to do something you don’t normally do. The easiest way to make people see you are more confident is to change your body language. There are a ton of videos on youtube to help you with that. Two of my favorite channels are Charisma On Command and Practical Physiology. They are great. The biggest deal is even when you don’t really feel confident just use the five second rule I talked about then fake it till you make it. As they say in show biz. Because confidence can give you a big boost to just about everything in your life.